The first time my parents left me alone for 2 weeks i played pretty much all the time. Heh, i had 1h limit and back in the days it took me 1-2 month to complete Half-Life and i played UFO for like 6 month. Raising kids is not about enforcing rules, it's preparing them for the real world where they need to make their own decisions. And show them how their decisions will impact them. So if your kids are doing inappropriate things to play, maybe talk to them as if they are adults, and make a reasonable deal. When I ask them about smoking, they have very negative associations with it. Then I tell them "look at those smokers, how sick they are. But when we walk to a hospital, there are always patients outside smoking (who obviously look sick). So if you can let them handle their own impulses, that is way better.įor example I will never tell my kids that they cannot smoke, because that will be out of my control anyway. They will have to handle such impulses themselves. So banning something they like, doesn't seem like a good solution to me. The thing with kids is that you will not be there all the time, especially when they get older. His smart reaction was to show that he could play a limited time, and be good afterwards. So I said "Wow, if XBox has this influence on you, maybe you should stop completely. When I tried to limit his time, he became agressive. My own son had this period where he was obsessed with playing on the XBox.
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